In my pre-marital counseling experience of recent years, I have found that there are three common crises in marriages and relationships:
Hello, members of Ahava Loves! I am sure you must be excited and are looking forward to finding a suitable partner for marriage here. Are you currently enjoying the single life or feeling lonely? Do you think about how you will choose a suitable spouse? After 34 years of marriage and multiple years of involvement in “marriage and family ministries”, I would like to share a few experiences with you.
近年來,我從事婚前輔導在交友婚姻方面,發現有三個普遍的危機:
在大學我是學理工的,畢業後從事電腦自動化工作,無論在學時或職場上,總是「萬綠叢中一點紅」, 但我堅持未來結婚的對象,要有相同的基督信仰、婚姻觀與家庭價值觀,所以要訓練自己有傳福音給對方的能力。
今天來到雅歌愛網的註冊會員,想必大家都期待能配對到自己心目中的理想伴侶,為踏入婚姻做預備。不知道你正享受單身生活,還是覺得很孤單?如何選擇適合伴侶呢?從34年的婚姻生活及多年參與交友婚姻家庭事工的服事中,我想分享幾點心得: